Love isn't something natural. Rather it requires discipline, concentration, patience, faith, and the overcoming of narcissism. It isn't a feeling, it is a practice. 爱并非天生。它需要自律,需要专注,需要耐心,需要信念,还需要克服自恋。爱不是一种感觉,而是一种实践。
Erich Fromm